My Folks #17: 29th Street #1, Finding Room

Since Boise City kept my folks from opening a trailer rental business within city limits, they looked five blocks south of our tiny one-bedroom home on 30th Street. 

Those five blocks meant they were looking for property in Ada County. Where the streets were dirt. Crime prevention was handled by the sheriff. Septic was in individual tanks. And fires were put out by the Collister Fire District, a county entity that was “really very good.” 

My folks found a block of pasture and garden land surrounded by 28th, Jordan, 29th and Gooding Streets owned by a Mr. Quirbridge (spelling?). It seems Mr. Quirbridge was ready to slow down. He took my folks up on an offer to buy the western half of his farmland.

Mr. Quirbridge kept the eastern half of the block. He kept his cow that mostly stayed in the pasture on the south side of his half-block. He continued to plant a thick garden that threatened to outgrow it’s northern quarter of the block. And he kept his chickens that didn’t seem much interested in wandering further than the rickety fence that surrounded his entire half-block. 

And that, my friends, is how I spent fifteen years growing twenty-one blocks from the Capital Building of the State of Idaho. On roads that were dirt until after I graduated from Boise High School in 1964.

Gay Bashed, part 5: Epilogue

It was in March of 2002 that I enjoyed driving to Alaska, seeing Northern Lights, and celebrating a moonlit shipboard romance. 

In 2009 I came across an internet post saying Scott Pasfield was traveling the United States. He was taking photographs of gay men from all walks of life to include in a large coffee table book. He was looking for stories that would make interesting reading to go along with the photos. 

I sent Scott a synopsis of my kidhood sexual paranoia during the1950s and my subsequent lifelong pattern of opting to avoid confrontation. It became a default to cowardice at every turn. And I told the story of being gay bashed in the parking lot of a bar in Watson Lake, Yukon Territory. I was 56 and driving the Alaskan Highway.

My synopsis to Scott concluded that being beat up is not recommended at all, but the next day the swollen left side of my head made me drive through the next town and toward a dot on the map. 

At that little dot I chanced onto an isolated room above a garage where the owners agreed to turn off their exterior lights. I enjoyed two glorious nights staring at curtains of light silently wafting across the sky. A few weeks later, thanks to not wanting to stay in Watson Lake on a return trip, I caught a ferry on the inland waterway and immersed myself in shipboard sex with a full moon filling the cabin with perfect light. 

Northern Lights and a shipboard romance—two blessings of lemonade being the result of an unfortunate lemon of an experience!

Scott liked my story. On his trip around the US he unloaded a portable photography studio of equipment in my home and found places for me to pose.

Gay in America, Portraits by Scott Pasfield, was published by Welcome Books in 2011. I was one of two Idaho men portrayed in it. 

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Unfortunately there are editors. Editors understand what publishers are looking for and editors have unlimited authority to edit as they see fit. Often that is an improvement. In my case the story shifted from one of misadventure leading to delightful blessings. Rather it was presented as a morality play of realizing “I had confronted my most awful fear …” (Editors. Can’t tell reflections with ’em. Can’t publish without ’em. Go figure.) 

However, I did get included in an excellent display of the vast variety of living as gay men. And I am part of exposing the silliness of stereotyping any human—whether gay or redneck or accountant. With the exception of all lawyers, of course …

Hot Water

When first surveying what would become the southern half of theState of Idaho, it was noted that hot springs averaged one every twenty square miles. One of these warm baths was three miles east of a sprouting outpost called Boise.  

The 1892 development of a large Natatorium—and laying wooden pipes to heat homes along Warm Spring Avenue—was a global first-use of these pipes to expand the blessings of geothermal heat beyond the baths and spas that have always sprung up around natural hot springs. 

Today the largest development of geothermal space heating is in Iceland with 90% of Icelandic living space being heated with piped geothermal water. Boise remains the largest system in the United States, with China, Sweden and Germany aggressively developing their resources. 

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After the energy crisis of the 1970s, the City of Boise and the Idaho State Capital Campus began seriously expanding the potential of the resource that lay 2,000 feet below our feet. 

The development included replacing the wooden pipes under Warm Springs Avenue with insulated asbestos pipes. Seeing those ninety-year-old wooden pipes being torn from the ground inspired me to do some research and a bit of writing. 

Well, folks, don’t ever get started on “a bit of writing.” It turns into a book. Or at least a booklet. 

In my case, an article no magazine was interested in and a college roommate who had just opened a print shop conspired to create my first publication.

Today there are but a few copies left of Glad to be in Hot Water, Geothermal Development in Boise, Idaho, 1890-1983

Rather than print more,  I’ve decided to post the booklet here for you to download if you wish. 

Click: Get Booklet and it will zip right your way. 

My Folks #16: 30th Street #4, Needing Room

By 1946, with my sister being three and myself having survived my first year, our tiny little house was getting snug. At the same time thelot across the alley had no more room for our expanding fleet of trailers. 

Two blocks north of our house on 30th Street, the block between 31st and 32nd Streets sat empty. It would sure be easy to move to.

It was a fine, flat patch of land perfectly adequate for my folk’s needs. It was in Boise City’s boundaries so was blessed with paved streets, fire and police protection and sewers to whisk our cares away.

It was also covered by Boise City rules, one being that neighbors could express their opinions about a business moving in next door. Years later my folks pointed out the home of the lady who thought the traffic, noise and dust of renting trailers would be too noisy, too much traffic and too much dust.  My folks had to agree but it did end their plans. They found another local some seven blocks away, south of State Street.

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After we moved from 30th Street the block my folks were eyeing for their business was filled with buildings even smaller than our 30th Street house. They were twelve freestanding buildings, made of cinderblock and all identical. Lined up in two rows, six were facing 30st Street and the other five had a view of 31st Street. 

At one time one of those buildings overlooking 31st Street was rented by my dad’s sister Reole and her handsome husband Earl. When I was six or so we visited Reole, Earl, and their sons Rodney and Craig at their home. 

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At the time we were living in a cinder block house and I had a legos-like toy set made up of cinderblock style pieces, so I identified with the life style. I vividly remember those cinderblock buildings standing alone on that otherwise empty city block. Now, in 2025, the buildings are still in use but there are carports, trees, awnings, and other additions making them much more cozy

Atlanta Idaho

My dad’s mother ran a laundry in remote Atlanta, Idaho, in the mid-1910s. My dad’s memory of those three years resulted in my sisters and I being drug to Atlanta, the associated local towns and over the Sawtooth Mountains all through the 1950s.

Dad had photos from his kid hood in Atlanta as well as 400+ photos from our horse camping trips in the Sawtooths. (There was no lightweight camping equipment in the 1950s)

I was headed to Atlanta in 2025 and created a photo book of stories from the 1910s and 1950s. While there I learned more history and had some adventures — including being the last bloke rescued at the Rescue Cabin between Atlanta and Rocky Bar (see pages 17 and 40-43).

GET BOOKLET includes all three eras, the 1910s, the 1950s, and 2025. You can do a “save as” to get this onto your / device.

It contains all the photos in my booklet. If you want all the 422 photos dad took in the 1950s and all the photos I took on my 2025 trip, email and I’ll get them to you.

For more on our horse camping in the 1950s, search on this site: Sawtooth Kidhood / Atlanta to Alturas Lake / /Grandjean to Alpine / Car Camping

dean@greatwahoo.com

My Folks #15: 30th Street #3: Saved by Sis

A year had passed since my mother’s ordeal delivering her oversized baby boy. The black and blue lumps on my head had long since formed into the perfectly formed skull I’ve been blessed with ever since. (That’s my story and I’m sticking with it!)

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We were still living in the tiny house on 30th Street. Dad was actively renting the trailer he had purchased to build the tiny house and he was more than happy to stop and chat with everyone who asked about it. In fact, with no credit card records in 1946, he had to chat and get enough evidence so the folks renting the trailer would bring it back.

I don’t remember it but my older sister Vicky does and my mom sure did. Apparently Dad was responsible for watching Vicky and I when he got busy conversing with a neighbor. Or renter. It must have been a very important chat. 

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There was an irrigation ditch running through the property, small enough for any adult to step over and any three year old to jump across. And, apparently, just the right size for a one year old to fall into without having the room to roll over and get his face out of the water. 

My sister noticed my laying in the ditch and struggling. Dad ignored Vicky’s frantic cries. So she reached down and pulled me out. 

Thanks, Sis …

There is no record of the reaction when my mother asked about her dripping wet muddy boy but the marriage lasted another thirty-one years.

My Folks #15: 30th Street #3: Saved by Sis

A year had passed since my mother’s ordeal delivering her oversized baby boy. The black and blue lumps on my head had long since formed into the perfectly formed skull I’ve been blessed with ever since. (That’s my story and I’m sticking with it!)

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We were still living in the tiny house on 30th Street. Dad was actively renting the trailer he had purchased to build the tiny house and he was more than happy to stop and chat with everyone who asked about it. In fact, with no credit card records in 1946, he had to chat and get enough evidence so the folks renting the trailer would bring it back.

I don’t remember it but my older sister Vicky does and my mom sure did. Apparently Dad was responsible for watching Vicky and I when he got busy conversing with a neighbor. Or renter. It must have been a very important chat. 

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There was an irrigation ditch running through the property, small enough for any adult to step over and any three year old to jump across. And, apparently, just the right size for a one year old to fall into without having the room to roll over and get his face out of the water. 

My sister noticed my laying in the ditch and struggling. Dad ignored Vicky’s frantic cries. So she reached down and pulled me out. 

Thanks, Sis …

There is no record of the reaction when my mother asked about her dripping wet muddy boy but the marriage lasted another thirty-one years.

My Folks #14: 30th Street #2 : Birthing This Boy

(originally blogged as My Folks #11: Birthing This Boy – fits in the story here)

I don’t remember the day, but my Mother sure did. April 25, 1945. Five days before Hitler murdered his newly married bride and then shot himself. At 6:25 in the morning, despite Mom’s hard work and interminable efforts, my fat head just would not get beyond crowning. 

Finally the doctors decided to take drastic measures by placing a contraption with three suction cups on what was showing of my head and yanking all 9 pounds and 5 ounces of me from her body.

Babies skulls are soft, an essential part of our getting through the birth channel. It is why the three suction cups that pulled me out left three very prominent black and blue lumps crowning the fat glory of me.

Somehow, after all that, my beautiful mother generously still loved me! 

Years later Mom told me how excited Dad had been, running along the line of new dads looking through a viewing glass to see their newborns for the first time. Cigars were passed out and lit up as he made sure everyone looked where he was pointing while he exclaimed: “That’s my boy! That’s my boy!”

It was then Mom looked at me and confided, “But Dean — you were the UGLIEST baby I had ever seen!” 

Gosh. Thanks, Mom!

My Folks #14: 30th Street #1, Building A Cottage

I was born when my folks lived in a tiny one bedroom house on 30th Street in Boise. It still stands a block north of the baseball backstop of Lowell Grade School. My folks had build the house in the early 1940s when WWII was introducing rationing and finding materials was getting more difficult by the day. 

Dad bought a four-wheel John Deere trailer that featured articulated front tires that turned into corners. It also boasted all-wheel breaks that used a sliding feature on the tongue to sense when the weight of the trailer was pushing on the that was towing it. As the trailer pushed against the towing vehicle the harder the tongue pulled on wires that applied the brakes.  A few years later he bought a second one.

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Some fifty years later I piled one of those trailers piled high with firewood and was stunned as I pulling that large load over the Lucy Peak grade to Idaho City. The brakes were so smooth I forgot there was a load behind me — until every time I wanted to check out the rear view mirror and saw only the  front end of a large trailer!

My dad bought that trailer with the turning wheels and all-wheel brakes so he could drive to the sawmill in Horseshoe Bend and enjoy wholesale prices on the lumber to build our little house. Anyone remembering the precipitous and winding 1940s Horseshoe Bend Grade knows how important those steerable wheels and brakes figured into putting a roof over our heads. 

It wasn’t long before one and then another neighbor came knocking on our door asking if they could rent that trailer. When folks from across town started showing up wanting to rent it my folks looked into renting a vacant lot across the alley so they could park more trailers that served different needs, like hauling a couple of cows or a load of coal. Worbois Rentals was launched before it had a letterhead. 

Or at least I think it was. Being an infant at the time my memory is rather blurry on the details.

My Folks #13: The Smell Test

My dad’s plan on marrying my mother was the same it had been with his first wife — to move in with his folks at the farmhouse out on Horseshoe Bend Road. 

It was a large two-level house with the latest in modern counter-balanced windows that offered good circulation in the summer months. It also featured an outhouse, chicken coop, hay barn and milking shed, all of which guaranteed a rich “bouquet” that permeated the entire premises. In that department I’m sure it was no different than any barnyard. 

Years later my mother assured me she was having nothing to do with that plan: “He was not moveing me into that smelly old house to take care of his mother and aging brother and sister.” 

And he didn’t!

Instead they rented a small place in Boise until they bought a single lot on 30th Street. It was and remains at one block north of Lowell Grade School’s baseball backstop.  

Soon they were building a small one-bedroom house. Three years after their wedding on June 14, 1940, my older sister joined the few pieces of furniture that were crowding that space. I joined them two years after that.